

We can change anything, and if it makes society a better place then we actually have a moral obligation to try
The problem is that “better” in the context of society is usually subjective. We’re talking about a form of censorship, for which change in a positive direction is very complicated at best.
Lawmakers in the US want people to think that ISPs taking responsibility for pirates on their network is a change for a “better” society, for example. Or that net neutrality is unfair to businesses and would result in a “better” society if abolished.
The truth is that it’s a ploy to gather unprecedented amounts of data on citizens hiding behind a “won’t they think of the children” moral take.
Girls want guys who are happy on their own first. Nobody wants to be responsible for someone else’s entire happiness.
That’s why they tell you to get a hobby with a community, it’s to be happy on your own. It isn’t so you can meet girls who like the same things you do (although that can happen), it’s so that girls can be attracted to the fact that you go get what you want and enjoy your life.
It’s hard if you’re depressed and it feels pointless at first. Do it anyway, and don’t do it to meet women. Do it to be happier.
When you drop the bitterness of being an incel and fill your life with friends and hobbies, you’ll immediately become more attractive.