It’s not that I don’t have anyone to talk to, it’s that I don’t have anything to talk about with others, and sometimes it happens that it’s impossible to endure that loneliness and I want to socialize so badly, and I don’t want to drink alcohol or watch shows on Netflix to drown out that feeling, because lately it hasn’t helped. I wonder how you deal with it?

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    16 小时前

    Build a relationship with your neighbour. If you feel lonely, just grab a few fruits or snacks from your pantry and knock on their door saying you bought to much. You’ll win a smile and a nice yet short conversation. Do this a few times and suddenly they will do the same.

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      15 小时前

      Yes, I also thought about it, but how embarrassing it is, but I think I will still try to do it, thanks!

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        14 小时前

        It is hard but quick. You don’t have to invite yourself to their home for coffee. Give them the snack, and go back quickly. You’ll ask for their name another time.