Admittedly, I am not a games enthusiast, whether video or board, but I have played both at times. In particular, I played a lot of – OK, this is totally gonna reveal that I’m an old ;P – THPS, and I’m 100℅ sure I played both RPG-type computer games as well as like Mario Bros stuff. However, I just have never really grasped what makes video games so enticing.

I suspect this is an annoying and well-trodden path, but I would sincerely appreciate it if you could find it in your heart to help me understand.

For me personally, I tend to look at things in terms of costs and benefits. Through that lens, most games seem like a bad deal. In principle, I like some of the more quirky or esoteric ones, but it quickly seems like a lot to learn relative the payout.

When I was in HS, I had a band. Has that type of interaction simply been replaced by video games?

I swear I’m not trying to troll – I really want to understand the interplay between video games and psychology. Cuz it seems like FPSes are dominant whereas not too long ago they were a single niche among many niches.

I appreciate your taking the time to read/reply.

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    Interesting. So where I think I don’t like video games writ large, I may only resonate with particular genres or particular mechanics, etc(?).

    That makes sense.

    I further believe I see more sameness exist than actually exists because I simply am not as familiar with the subject matter.

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      (I think you were trying to reply to me)

      Yeah there’s probably something out there for everyone, the world of vidoegames is incredibly vast.

      While some people vibe with many things others gravitate only to a niche. I lucked out on finding something I love, even though I played my first videogame already as an adult, but I was always curious about them so there’s that. I had the curiosity, and through friends the chance to try things out without really commiting at first.

      Somehow games mantained my interest enough during almost a decade of very sparce gaming until I found my stuff.

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        Thanks – and dear god, I am doing luddite stuff online now: not replying in the thread etc.

        That’s interesting you only came to play games as an adult. I wonder how much the starting point influences the trajectory.