• shawn1122@sh.itjust.works
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    57 minutes ago

    Most people don’t really know what they want until they’ve had their perspective is broadened.

    Filtering people out based on specific physical attributes is wild in my opinion. So glad I found my partner before that became ‘normal’.

    That being said I’m speaking for full fledged adults. We have research now that suggests adolesence extends to age 32. I wouldn’t be suprised if people in their 20s were overly focussed on the concept of a perfect physical match in their search for a partner, just from my memory of living through that age.