Reddit destroying third party apps was the last straw for me. So, I hopped on kbin and some Lemmy instances. Reddit continues to degrade, and Reddit mods are annoying.
RIP Aaron Swartz (Reddit removed him as a founder).
Reddit killed third party apps
It wasn’t just that. I used the first party app so the API changes didn’t affect me. It was how bad they handled the whole situation that made me lose faith that reddit was going in a good direction. That thread “addressing” the changes and concerns was brutal.
reddit isn’t fun
I’m looking at other people’s reasons for reddit bans and i kinda understand why they were. I dont agree with them, and most of them are stupid and heavy handed and are mean-spirited applications of the letter of a rule while blatantly ignoring the meaning, but they are technically justifiable.
I got banned for saying Genji mains suck.
Apollo stopped working. 😢
Yep. Same.
I’d already heard of Mastodon and based on poking around there, I learned about Lemmy, so I explored it as a Reddit alternative. Initially, my early exposure to lemmy was mostly a curiosity thing.
Also during that time, my resentment and distaste for Reddit’s policies and general culture was building up. The place had changed so much over the years, just slowly enough that it took awhile to notice that it was no longer the same place it was when I first arrived.
I ended up coming to Lemmy in the months ahead of the Reddit API fiasco, but would still peek over there from time to time. Then post API fiasco, I just stopped even peeking.
In those days, Lemmy was a largely KIND place, so that really helped the transition. The culture here was different from Reddit, and seemed much more positive and supportive at that time, so that made it easier to look past the flaws. It was a regular occurrence to see folks call out users who were being abusive or overly abrasive in their replies, and folks would often talk out or joke about their differences. It was a nice, refreshing change of pace most of the time.
That’s almost all gone now or perhaps hidden on some private or unbeknownst to me server somewhere in the Fediverse. But for me, for now, I’m still here. I just had to adapt. Basically I mostly stopped reading replies to my comments and just block people I see being abusive to others, but this also means Lemmy is now a sad, dead echo of its not too distant past and more of an opportunity to fart into the winds of oblivion.
The sex , drugs and rock n roll !
Discovered way to late there was a decentralized version of Reddit and I had to join
Reddit killed third party apps and I refused to use their shit app. It all just stinks of enshitification. So I spun up my own instance of Lemmy and haven’t looked back.
You seem like a high initiative individual. Congrats. I lack technical sophistication to even buy a domain name lol. How much do you pay for lazysoci.al per year (the domain name)?
It’s about £10 a year. I’m lucky though as I run a small side business which has some hosting capabilities. So there is already an enterprise grade set of servers ready to deploy Lemmy. I don’t need to look for hosting costs or be worried about performance as the servers are paid for and are top spec.
What is your Lemmy instance?
Because Reddit is a haven for power tripping white supremacists who ban any opinion they don’t like.
I was already no longer posting on reddit through alternative front-ends since around 2018, because I disliked privacy issues with it. I was just lurking via alternate frontends (the precursors to Redlib, there were more before the API fiasco). I was already into the FOSS community and so I forget exactly how I came across Raddle and Lemmy (maybe through /r/piracy or /r/datahoarder, but could have been many other places), and Lemmy was far far far slower then, but when I landed on Lemmy I really wanted it to become a viable alternative to reddit.
Because I missed the niche that reddit filled and I wasn’t willing to return to reddit or any other corporate, centralised social media/community platform.
apicalypse, rip apollo
Never seen the term apicalypse and just had to say it’s fantastic.
That was my fediverse cohort too.
Same. I could only reddit through Boost.
Typing this from Boost for Lemmy :)
Got banned from reddit for saying that Peter Thiel should be turned into soup 3 times.
noooo not Peter >:(
The best bit is it went like this:
- “peter theil should be turned into soup”
- “th-iel should be turned into soup”
- “I got 2 warnings because I suggested Peter Theil be turned into soup like a bit in loony tunes”
And lo, 15+ year account into the bin, and reddit along with it.
you deliberately miss-spelled peters name but where still punished (by a bot?) ???
Yup. And the third time was discussing policy in context, really.
The difference between saying something and a newspaper publishing that something was said.
I was finally permabanned for a message I’d posted many times without anyone blinking. Then Trump gets elected, and it’s a permaban offense.
I got perma banned from reddit.
I am not sure why. It could have been because I got 200+ downvotes for posting that Guy Ritchie’s Ministry of Ungentlemenly Warfare looked like a steaming pile of dog shit or because I posted that Pete Hegsbeth needs to die.
Anyway I deserved the Perma Ban.
The only thing I miss about reddit are the sports subs. Those were a lot more active than the ones on lemmy/fedverse.
sports subs
idk iam not that interested in sports, hate sports betting btw. This shows how there are many different niche interests that can not be served by lemmy
There is no reason the sports instances cant be busy on lemmy.
because centralized social media eventually leads to ads/monetization etc. your content becomes for profit








