I understand that some of the criticism comes from conservatives but the sentiment seems to extend far beyond thst. Of course, I understand it when it’s forced or when someone only does it to survive against their will. But if people genuinely want to do it, why do people hate on them?


Magical thinking bullshit. Sex is exactly as sacred as a one on one game of basketball, and almost every bit of the Patriarchy rests on the foundation of denying that basic truth.
I’m all for smashing patriarchy and a part of me agrees with you on sex being “just another activity”. But I’d be very interested to hear other people’s thoughts on my argument about rape vs beating!