• tetris11@feddit.uk
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    edit-2
    23 hours ago

    someone uninvites you, then you can plus one yourself.

    No, self-votes should not count because then everyone will just self-vote and no actual consensus building is taking place.

    If you get downvoted, hope that you have at least one friend who cares about you being there

    • notarobot@lemmy.zip
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      21 hours ago

      If you self vote, you don’t get to bring anyone. Even with self voting you can get -1’d twice. Otherwise you can +1 your date, the you get -1’d and your date goes alone. Which has a high likelihood of meaning that they won’t go either