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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I encounter negativity when discussing politics online. Somehow quite a few people get insulting and expect me to change my view after. It’s irritating and hinders my will to be open minded when discussions are tinted with insults.

    In some cases, it has to be people that just get off on conflict. Trolls, but like a kind that pretends to be a normal community participant. In other cases it’s more like they’ve forgotten there’s someone real on the other side.

    When you have a good conversation with someone you don’t agree with at all, that shit is fascinating, though.



  • I haven’t seen “look on the bright side” yet.

    That’s frequently dumb, unhelpful advice, because it’s presented as a cure-all. But, the way anything negative gets amplified, it’s worth considering if you’re overlooking the good stuff.

    Like, most Lemmings have flown on a plane, at near the speed of sound above all the clouds. Cavemen would have killed for that opportunity. When we look at the stars, we know what they actually are. We’re not having more and more kids unsustainably anymore.

    Edit: Oh, never mind, I just missed it.

    Maybe I’ll just add the abstract idea of hope, then. Things still could turn out okay even if they’re bad now.






  • Yeah, it’s tough. We’re kind of raised with the expectation there’s good people and bad people, right? Some are savvy enough to know that’s bullshit really early on; others don’t care if it’s literally true and can just live in the fantasy. The rest of us have to deal with it if and when we figure it out.

    It seems like there should be a way to live a good life in a world full of morally neutral people. I can’t really say I’ve figured it out.