Yes to AITA. You’ve made several posts like this, dont follow any suggestions presented, decline to change (does not matter if youre neurotypical or not), I think even took another position in nursing and still miserable. If you are this miserable, as hard as it may be, likely would be worth a career change.
Not me but my now husband at 27. I laid my head on his chest going to sleep and heard wheezing. I asked him if he always wheezed lol. He thought he was just out of shape and combined with really bad allergies. Respiratory conditions suck.
My dogs use Earth Bath Oatmeal and Aloe and I like it
Reading the other thread you cross-posted from and being a nurse myself, I agree with the other comments and answers found in the original thread.
You don’t have to like the answer but people generally are asking not to be prying but to be social with you and involving you to be inclusive, whether or not you are neurotypical. That is nice of your peers and honestly, practicing these behaviors for your patients too would help with your job. You are encountering individuals at their lowest: when they are most vulnerable, in pain, in discomfort, stressed, anxious, alone, etc. Part of the patient healing process is support and connection with their healthcare team, which would include you. Patients may do the same thing, ask you questions similar to those of your peers to get to know you or form a connection.
For your peers, you can disclose you are not neurotypical to increase understanding and let them know you are having issues with socialization but there should be some efforts to work with your team as well as with your patients. Healthcare especially in an acute setting as your answers so far has implied is a super social job and if not being social is your thing, there are other positions in healthcare that are not as social in nursing: utilization review, MDS RN, transfer center nurse, picc line vs wound care nurse just for specific tasks, etc.
Besides the top answer of situational openers, sometimes people ask what you’re up to or what you’ve done. I would always keep in mind three things that I’ve done recently or even interesting observations I’ve had in last week or so.
I like my job but I don’t really think its the norm. I loved physiology and anatomy, bio based sciences and was watching a lot of House MD during my senior year of high school (interestingly enough, since then I never had interest in any medical shows ever anymore. Also house wasn’t that great but HS me liked it).
Chose nursing and was blessed to have always worked around others that actually fucking cared about patients. If working in other hospitals with more jaded or burnt out nurses im sure my experience would be different. Make money too while helping them navigate the current healthcare system. So good pay, nice coworkers, and interest in what I do. Likely never going to be laid off. Most people are not as fortunate.
More Batman Beyond… And just DC in general. I have always found DC makes better animated series than Marvel.
I wish there was more Arcane. Its the most amazing animated show I have ever seen and honestly the money spent in production for music, animation, writing and everything was insane. It definitely showed.
In Japan, I’ve also had like medium pork katsu. So pork katsu not fully cooked. I’m sure there are higher quality porks different places. Def not something I will try in US.
Nothing mind blowing? Only mind blowing course was Sociology. My professor worshipped Bernie Sanders and I appreciated him engaging his students to do better.
But also, That succeeding in college/university just shows that someone can learn, follow instructions, work in a group, etc. It really is to prepare someone to show up and do the work. I mean everyone is different and there’s just more likelihood of someone being a better person to work with than someone who doesn’t have that structure or ability to absorb info and think.
I don’t think necessarily that people need higher education but it helps. I tell people I think careerwise it helps to have at least two of the three:
Know college isn’t for some people and the people I know that are successful are often very skilled or/and have connections, can make connections to get employed where they are.
Oh and STEM though, I think people 100% need college/university for more specialized fields and STEM like medical professionals, physicists, etc.
When I was in college, it was a lot of yogurt, cereal, pasta, and subway. Those $5 subways were 2 meals for me.
However, as an adult, I just made a cabbage salad. I highly recommend recipes from budgetbytes. They try to use cheap but nutritious ingredients whether fresh, frozen, or canned
Vampire survivors!!
It’s on mobile app stores too
The YouTube videos and analysis is also so fascinating. Everyone finds something different!
Crocs. I had avoided them for years until I went on a kayaking tour on Vancouver Island. Well, while they were ugly AF, they are one of most comfortable shoes I’ve tried that are just… Easy to slip on and off?
*Jurassic Park
Zombieland is mine!!
Project Hail Mary is one of my favorite audio books of all time! Second your rec!!
FYI, there is an instance that asks this every week!
But to answer your question,
My last read was Pachinko by Min Jin Lee. Its a historical fiction about a few generations of a Korean family. It was solid.
I’m currently on vacation and have been reading Everyone in My Family Has Killed Someone … Picked it up since it was available and supposed to be an easy read… Which it is. Its just a whodunit. Idk how I feel about it yet.
The A series lines have been the best value smartphones generation after generation. I would not say theyre expensive. I have bought each current gen for about $350 or less (excluding tax), no trade in.
Same here. I also like to use it to save time on things. My work has all my info and their policies anyways so i use it to make meeting minutes, make emails summarizing policies or announcements, finding mutual scheduling times, etc. I can do all these myself but its so much faster.
I only really use AI at work and keep my work off my personal devices.