• 2 Posts
  • 199 Comments
Joined 2 years ago
cake
Cake day: April 28th, 2024

help-circle




  • Read this and most of your other posts after this. If you’re in San Francisco (i dont know but what youre describing sounds very much like it), I can only share my experience in the bay area, your posts just sound very pessimistic.

    Yeah, some of my friends have run into people like that but humans tend to be very dynamic in that everyone is different. If you find a girl who expects that level of finances, unlikely to be a great partner anyways. There are people everywhere. You even said yourself your friends are single and I would imagine they wouldn’t be your friends unless they had some qualities you like about them too. People are out there! Wishing you the best on your journey









  • Well, I would ask her first how she is feeling. Assess, dont assume. I manage ED staff and honestly they’re all okay unless there is a super super depressing case or a very difficult patient.

    Otherwise, they’re fine and their work day is very normal for them. There’s even a few that thrive in it.

    So unless her rant is about stress, maybe I wouldn’t worry. Lots of people in the hospital just like talking about their day or venting. If it is about stress or something more, there’s a lot of resources and interventions she can try/tap into: EAP, therapy, trying a different area in the hospital, etc.