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Cake day: October 4th, 2024

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    1. Few people like to be the first(ish) one on the dance floor.

    2. It’s slightly harder to sign up for than Reddit, so people interested in this kind of thing usually just sign up for Reddit (or stay there).

    3. Most people don’t care about the advantages Lemmy affords us; they care about what’s on TV tonight or which celebrity is dating which celebrity.




  • I remember ICQ fondly, but I guess I’m too young or didn’t inhabit the same tech niches you did/do.

    To me, ending a typed message with “qq” or “QQ” is for teletype systems that lacked length and special characters, so it helped if you alphanumerically stated that your message was an interrogative, which wound up being “qq,” presumably two for certainty it wasn’t a typo or a word ending in Q.

    E.g. “THERE” could mean “I am there” and “THERE QQ” could mean “Are you there?”




  • True, but they seem to dominate every feminist space I’ve been in, so the definition of “feminist” is hard for me to work out; nicer people seem to think it’s 1:1 with “egalitarian,” but then why have two words for the same thing?

    So my conclusion has been that I’ll just keep voting and speaking in the interests of making our world treat men and women equally, and just shrug my shoulders at the labels. As I said elsewhere, that’s not enough for some feminists, so they’ll just have to continue disliking me. Misogynists dislike me too, so I’m used to it.



  • I used to, but I don’t think I should any more. I’ve been kicked out of two feminist spaces:

    1. Someone said childcare is exclusively a women’s issue, as in men cannot or do not help with it, and I disagreed.

    2. Someone said it was hilarious that some men think there are unique challenges men face that women do not, and I disagreed.

    So if 100% of feminist groups I’ve joined don’t believe I’m a feminist, I guess I’m not a feminist. I guess you could say I failed the purity tests.






  • There’s plenty of documentation surrounding people getting banned for little to no reason. Blocking obviously has much less accountability and transparency to it; don’t you think people are much more willing to block for even less?

    Not to be rude but, there are tons of people in the world and they’re all completely different. “I wouldn’t do it so nobody else would” is naive.



  • I think this is for people who are less “annoying” and more “actively lying and being bad faith.”

    It can easily be co-opted by people willing to block either, as evidenced by the flame war in the comments here; the post suggests “I don’t like this” -> Block. I don’t like annoying people. I also don’t like people arguing in bad faith.

    This is further complicated by the fact that a lot of people misconstrue good faith arguments from very different points of view with bad faith arguments. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been labeled as someone arguing in bad faith because my view differed from theirs and I didn’t immediately reverse my stance when confronted, or someone simply can’t read very well (literacy rates being what they are these days).

    In part, this is because trolls sometimes like to be very subtle and drag a conversation out for 50 comments.

    In part, this is because people are dumb and/or paranoid and don’t understand that people with other apparent viewpoints might not be trolls.