Sites like reddit/lemmy, I feel, actively discourage these sorts of personal connections, since you follow subs or the “hot” algorithm, rather than certain people. With so much churn, it is difficult to remember people’s usernames, and therefore difficult to create a real picture of them as a complete human being.
Worth noting, Mbin is a community-based fediverse project like Lemmy that also supports microblogging and thus following users.




I’m 29, I joined the fediverse during the Reddit API protests.
Not using Lemmy though, I’m an Mbin user.