Because in my opinion people are used to reddit, and is the biggest one, baiscally everyone else is there, why changing for a platform where you have evem to choose " an what? An instance?"), with a fraction of the users.

I stopped using reddit after the api rules changes, i quit twiitter as sson as that nazi guy bought it.

The main socials I use are mastodon and lemmy.

How many of my friends are on madtodon? 1 or 2, how many of them are active there? 0. And i think my nbers are even higher than wjat i think they should be because most of my friemds works in the IT

People unfortunately just wants everything quickly, without hassle, and are not prone to change.

A question on reddit? Probably you’ll get an answer in few hours. On lemmy? You are luckynif you’ll get one.

I have a small crafting page, that I’m trying to spread using only mastodon, it’s much harder. These are the reasons I think.

And most people don’t even care about the content of if their timeline is 85% ads and suggested pages.

They will just scroll. Algorithms are shitty, but who cares. Everyone is there…

Yeah the story setting is intriguing. Nkw what type of game will be? But again this opening is intriguing

Reread what you have written:

You are 22yo, you have done an experience abroad (and it already place you above lot of ppl that didn’t even left their own country), and i assume you speak at least a secind language beside your native one, then you managed to set up a new business, earning money, the businesses is successful, and the parents of this girl are trying to make you believe the opposite?

Well I think that you should be able to tell who is the failure.