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Cake day: November 3rd, 2024

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  • Managed to topple a big oil drum of waste oil in my dad’s garage. I was 5 or so, and I was wearing a brand new winter outfit. It was light blue.

    My dad was doing something, and was talking to someone who had stopped by. And this being on a moderately large farm, I always found something to do. 99.9% of the time, this was not a problem, as there wasn’t much that could physically maim me other than stuff my parents obviously watched out for.

    However, I’ve never managed to reach any higher levels of cimedic timing in my life, and I doubt anyone else could either. The visitor asked my dad where I was at, knowing I was usually in the immediatevicinity. Upon hearing “around here somewhere”, they were concerned that I was kind of unsupervised. “There’s not a whole lot of bad stuff he can do” my dad said, just around the time when they heard the sound of something large falling over, combined with my excited cheer. I was a crafty little shit, and I somehow understood the concept of leverage.

    That was 38ish years ago. I still remember the smell. My brand new winter clothes weren’t blue after that.


  • In rare circumstances yes. Usually no.

    If the argument is based solely on arguing for one’s position in the name of exploring a topic, then it can be interesting provided that the other party is arguing in good faith about something neither of us are very invested in.

    This would be more akin to recreational debate where ones position doesn’t really matter, and where one doesn’t lose anything by being in the wrong.

    However, most real life arguments involve emotions and a position of personal pride. Once an argument on a topic can be interpreted as an attack/defense on ones own opinions it gets infinitely worse.








  • Two approaches that basically amount to the same thing:

    1. Join some sort of organized activity.
    2. Force yourself to be social.

    About the latter: In early 2007 I realized that my life was pretty lacking at the age of 24, mostly stemming from the fact that I enjoyed solitude a bit too much. Sure, people would come around from time to time (I lived Ina collective), but beyond that not much was happening.

    So I decided that I would be more outgoing, in the literal sense. Every day I would do something, anything, in an effort to be the “instigator” for anything social. This could be pretty much anything from visiting someone I knew across town, to just phoning someone up to hang out.

    The collective nature of my housing situation usually meant that I happened to be there when a party happened. However, after a month of just trying to be more outgoing I was actively invited places. This was all new to me. Suddenly people were phoning me to see if I wanted to do something.

    I kept at it for a month. It was fucking exhausting. But it proved to me that it doesn’t really take much effort - all you have to do is to reach out.

    In retrospect I think doing it every day is kind of extreme, at least for my personality type. But my anecdotal evidence stands clear: make an effort, take the initiative, and things will happen organically.










  • I’ve done some very dodgy things with VGA cables in an effort to route the cables through narrow bulkheads. For normal computer-to-monitor-lengths this is probably fine.

    I haven’t noticed much signal degradation below 4m-ish.

    At 12m, you better solder properly and wrap some extra shielding around your splice.

    Source: I’ve ran plenty of VGA cables between bridge computers and a deck monitor on ships.