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Cake day: December 27th, 2023

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  • I’ve been married for 34 years. We’ve never fought, as in, we’ve never yelled at each other. There’s been very few times we’ve disagreed on something, but on those times, we’ve had a discussion from each of our point of views and we’ve come to final understanding of the issue. That could mean one sided view prevailed over the others, or we met somewhere in the middle.

    The ability to discuss things without taking them as an attack is the key to happiness. If your spouse doesn’t think you need to wash dishes right after making them dirty, but you think the opposite, you both need to internally decide if you can live with the others belief. If you are fine with the dirty dishes, then go about your day. It’s just not worth it to make that a problem.

    My wife is my absolute best friend and I’d never wreck that friendship. (plus we get to boink soon that’s a plus too)