

Found my now-husband on Hinge. I was on the app a while (a year and change) before we matched, but he told me that I was his first match on it. There were a lot of duds and a few first dates that led nowhere, but I didn’t have any interaction with people I felt where dangerous or anything like that. Hinge also didn’t feel like it had anything that felt overtly monetized compared to other dating apps (like bumble). This was back in 2020 so I have no idea what it’s like now.














The language I know best besides English is Spanish, but since it’s not my culture, I decided to look it up, and there’s actually an interesting Wikipedia article about gender neutrality in Spanish.
There’s a separate page for a proposed single nonbinary pronoun “Elle” (pronounced A-yay) which I really like.