I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

  • rumba@lemmy.zipEnglish
    31·
    5 hours ago

    They want a safe place to vent. I’m split on whether they leave it open so that guys can read/understand or whether they just like kicking out guys that try to defend themselves. Probably a bit of each. Good for them :)

    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
      3·
      3 hours ago

      they need an enemy to cohere around. so leaving it open for men to comment and vilify helps them build group solidarity.

      ironically i can post there and nobody calls me out. because my comments pass as a woman. i am too feminine to be a threat or something.