Well, it’s going to be a pretty miserable Christmas for me, and I’m sure for others too. I figured it would be a good idea to have some place on Lemmy (I checked the Christmas instance and the last post was 2 years ago…) where those at a loose end could at least have each other for company throughout the Christmas period. Any ideas on how to make this happen appreciated!

  • [鳳凰院 凶真 Hououin Kyouma]|[alt: 黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui]@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    I’m Asian so living with family is the norm… (I’m a young adult, think lile college age, but I’m dealing with depression so college plans are on pause)

    But idk, I remember I had fun times with my mother when I was just a kid. Now… idk…

    So much depression from both trauma within the family, and trauma from outside (school… xenophobia/racism and bullying, and also political instability)

    I’m not alone, but I’m lonely.

    I have a older brother, but something happened years ago and we don’t vibe anymore. (sibling abuse, fighting…)

    I don’t really have friends, I’m not good at keeping friends… so… yeah…

    Not alone, just lonely.

    I have a cat, but I’m not a good owner, so my cat is kinda indifferent towards me, it’s my fault for not being in a good enough mental state to play with my cat. I kinda messed up this timeline, I wish I could go back to re-do it.

    • Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works
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      2 days ago

      A cat’s mental state leans towards indifference naturally, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a bad owner. If it doesn’t mind being around you, and it can be relaxed in the same room, that’s a good sign it considers you a friend. Although if you can sometimes muster up a few minutes of play, that might be good for both of you.