That shit isn’t normal. I think parents doing minor poking around from time to time isn’t abnormal, especially if there is real concern about the child.
TMI but I have the experience of my parents finding out I was suicidal because they looked around. I wasn’t about to say anything to them about it. Or anyone else. I was a sad and angry teen. They looked out for me as best they could.
However, I never knew for certain that they had until I was much older. I suspected a couple times but they didn’t drop hints or outright say anything. Just adjusted how they were raising me.
That shit isn’t normal. I think parents doing minor poking around from time to time isn’t abnormal, especially if there is real concern about the child.
TMI but I have the experience of my parents finding out I was suicidal because they looked around. I wasn’t about to say anything to them about it. Or anyone else. I was a sad and angry teen. They looked out for me as best they could.
However, I never knew for certain that they had until I was much older. I suspected a couple times but they didn’t drop hints or outright say anything. Just adjusted how they were raising me.
I do think some snooping is normal, especially given how secretive teens become. But as with everything there a lines to be drawn.
100% agree. It’s easy to do it wrong.