Not even to my SO. Quite some time ago we discussed it and agreed that we won’t be giving gifts for “celebratory dates” (i.e. Valentine’s, Christmas, birthdays). We instead give each other gifts at any point in time, just because we felt like it. No pressure for buying gifts in advance and instead we get very usual “Hey I saw this and thought of you” all year long.
My wife and I give little things for celebratory dates, but never huge things over $50. We generally operate on the “You’re an adult, buy what you want, just don’t be crazy.” It’s worked so far 🤞
Not even to my SO. Quite some time ago we discussed it and agreed that we won’t be giving gifts for “celebratory dates” (i.e. Valentine’s, Christmas, birthdays). We instead give each other gifts at any point in time, just because we felt like it. No pressure for buying gifts in advance and instead we get very usual “Hey I saw this and thought of you” all year long.
My wife and I give little things for celebratory dates, but never huge things over $50. We generally operate on the “You’re an adult, buy what you want, just don’t be crazy.” It’s worked so far 🤞