I’m going on my first trail ride of 2026. My instructor’s fiancee won’t be around that day, so she’s taking me, her friend, and one of her younger students on a trail ride.
We intend to be out for 2 hours, but may make the ride longer if we collectively want to lol. I’ll be riding the horse named Ginger and I’m stoked. She’s so fun to ride and is so pretty.
It was valentines day yesterday here in Sweden, which I didn’t know at first.
I invited a female friend to fika at my place, I thought she was acting kinda stiff and was wondering why, then she asked “M, do you know what day it is today?” and I just said “uhm, Saturday?” and she laughed and told me it’s valentines day.
I felt so embarrassed, I’m both not interested in her in that way and not in a place in my life where I want a relationship or even FWB or one night stands. I apologised and explained and she thankfully accepted and understood, still felt embarrassed and dumb though.
It was a nice fika though and I helped her figure out some personal stuff.