• HikingVet@lemmy.ca
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    4 hours ago

    I don’t have one. I find questions like this to be inflammatory.

    Edit: seems a number of people think there is a specific number of freinds you need to be happy.

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      6 hours ago

      im not sure why you found it inflammatory as it was a genuine question. regardless, apologies

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        5 hours ago

        Take a moment to think about that.

        Edit: love when I don’t set a standard for something without a standard and people don’t use critical thinkg.

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          thought about it. I’m still unsure because I was trying to have a conversation and compare numbers, but no need to elaborate I dont want to offend you further

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            4 hours ago

            Comparison of the amount of friends one has is not good. It does not speak to quality of the friendships and can cause further issues for people if they don’t “measure up”. Genuine curiosity can be inflammatory.

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              4 hours ago

              I wasnt trying to compare amount of friends. I wanted to know how many friends reach out first that you feel is a sufficient number.

              I think 3 is okay imo, but I figure you’d like more than 3? unsure, hence why I asked

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                4 hours ago

                How about we don’t do numbers of individuals yeah? Bcause again that’s a misleading piece of information.

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                  3 hours ago

                  literally said two hours ago how about we not and apologized since you took offense to it