Ok, so I keep getting gaslighted by people around me (USA) when I comment how crazy the weather is, and how we’ve never had it like this, and they say things like “oh, you just notice it more now because you’re older” or “the weathers always done this”
But I don’t think it’s normal for weather to be -10 degrees F with snow, and then 3 days later 75 degrees F! That seems insane to me!
Unless I’m wrong and we really have had this insane type of weather “forever”. But it doesn’t feel like it.
the Question: Am I crazy, or right, and is there proof?
Not grey rocking the relationship. I grey rock her attempts to gaslight me. I should have explained better. The first time she gaslit me, it ended with me losing my cool and screaming, and accusing her of gaslighting me. That’s what a gaslighter wants; they want to make you look crazy and for you to doubt reality around you. Once she starts to gaslight, I disengage. It’s like trying to play chess with a pigeon, they just knock the pieces around, shit on the board, and claim to have won.