I came here a few weeks ago after many years of reddit. Altogether I find discussions I enjoy, however, the posts and comments noticeably lean, well, tankie (I didn’t know that term before I came here). It’s not that I am looking for an echo chamber, but I also don’t want to spend my time reading propaganda. I’m really curious about a lot of things outside politics, as well as the opinions and arguments of reasonable people across the political spectrum, but I don’t want to listen to the boring canned lies of fascists and tankies. I realized that people celebrating communist dictators trigger me, and this is something I didn’t have to deal with before I started reading lemmy, I didn’t even know this type existed.
I also notice that accounts created just a few hours in advance come from other instances to brigade political posts. Because of how lemmy works, I can block individual users or communities, but not individual instances. Is there an instance that could be a “safe space” from this kind of brigading and tankie spam? Or a way to use the internet to read interesting things now that blogs died and then Reddit became whatever it became?

Edit: Thanks everyone for the helpful and wholesome comments. Of course, some trolls/wackos showed up as well to say hi.

  • PapaSkwat@lemmy.wtf
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    Life and people aren’t nearly as awful as Lemmy constantly paints them to be. Too many users here just doomscroll and get a kick out of pretending the world’s already doomed and deserves it.

    I refuse to live like that. My life is about finding joy, helping people, knowing my neighbors, and genuinely loving others. Because of that, the so-called “paradox of tolerance” doesn’t apply to me. I’m not tolerating intolerance; I’m just choosing not to build my world around hate or fear or negativity.

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      I don’t know I had a dude wake me up at 5 AM every morning for 18 months so he could parade his loud truck and his Maga flag down the street. For me, the paradox of tolerance was broken when the police wouldn’t stop him from breaking the law every day.

      You guys let your extremist run wild and terrorize society for the last six years. You have no moderate views you have no moderate inclinations. You have no conservative values. It hits pure regressive politics and hate mongering. The only thing you conserve is hierarchy and perverse incentives.

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        Please explain “you guys.”

        I’m not republican. I didn’t “let” anyone run anything. The US voted, and Trump won. And next election people have the option to vote someone else in.

        Are you assuming I’m republican just because I said not all republicans are bad?! Dude, come on…think about that. Fucking Lemmy, man… lol

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          The paradox of tolerance is real, it has been broken. They wanted to genocide me after Charlie Kirk died because I made meme. Millions of people used their voices to call for violence against the left. Like left of hitler basically.

          So yes you have chosen a side. You turn a blind eye to the horrors unfolding across your country and pretend like people are innocent actors. Keep ignoring the calls for violence, I suppose if you don’t feel included in them, then they can’t hurt you 🤣

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            They wanted to genocide me after Charlie Kirk died because I made meme.

            No they didn’t. Also, how about not make a joke of someone being murdered. Never cool. Never funny.

            Keep ignoring the calls for violence, I suppose if you don’t feel included in them, then they can’t hurt you

            I see much more calls for violence on Lemmy than anywhere else. I refuse to give in to the negativity and extremism of Lemmy. I choose to fill my life with love, laughter, friends, and understanding.

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          If January 6th wasn’t enough to rethink your party members, then you chose a side, and you’re with the traitors and oath breakers.

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      Good for you, must be nice living in a fantasy land like the pyro from TF2.

      It’s fucking delusional it’s what it is, and you can’t just choose to ignore the paradox of tolerance, unless you want to turn your favourite bar into a nazi bar

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        How is it a fantasy world?

        Do you realize that the US isn’t a war zone, and that most people just go along their daily lives of dropping kids off at school, hiking, mowing their lawns, going to work, going to the park, going on dates with their significant other, watching netflix, etc?

        Most non-Lemmy people don’t make their politics their identity, nor do they talk about politics every single day, nor do they call every single person that disagrees with them a Nazi or a Fascist daily.

        Most just don’t care about politics. As we saw in the election.

        How is that a fantasy world? Normal society isn’t even close to what the Lemmy-verse is…lol

        Lemmy has the worst cases of doomscrolling and negativity that I have ever seen.

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          A: you assume I’m American. I’m not. That’s an insult where I’m from.

          B: it’s not open to everyone, don’t be stupid. It’s a walled and managed garden like every social media, just the walls are guarded by volunteers instead of staff. And instead of single source of moderation, it’s literally hundreds of teams working together (Federation)

          C: Right, let’s say that someone says something shitty and bigoted, you saying I should let them stay, in the interest of “balance”? Just answer that

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            I’m saying that not every conservative is shitty and bigoted. Lemmy doesn’t want to admit that though. That’s my point.

            Lemmy has about 1.366 million registered users worldwide (with monthly active users way lower, around 48,000–50,000). That’s less than 0.0004% of the US population of roughly 343 million. Not even close to representing how the general US population feels about things.

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              You can’t be trying to “both sides” everything, when one side have a secret police that kidnap children from their houses and destroy families

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                I refuse to give in to the negativity and extremism of Lemmy. I choose to fill my life with love, laughter, friends, and understanding.

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                  I choose to live in reality, where I don’t ignore and enable the one side that have a secret police that kidnap children from their houses and destroy families.

                  But you obviously don’t care about that, as long as your little bubble of unreality is safe.

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              They’re not all shitty and bigoted, but they are all comfortable with shittiness and bigotry, and that’s functionally the same thing

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                Not true. Again, you can’t speak for everyone and you are just spouting the usual extremist stuff that Lemmy does. The fact that so much of Lemmy thinks reddit is actuallyconservative tells ya how out of touch people here are. lolol

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                  How else to you reconcile being on the same side as all the bigots? You are clearly comfortable with them

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                    I’m not republican tho. I said they are not terrible people. But hey, we’re on Lemmy, where’s its dangerous to have a different opinion…lololol

                    How old are you? And what do you do for work?

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            A: you assume I’m American. I’m not.

            Then you don’t know how America really is and have no room to talk with any authority about it. All you know is what you have read on news and Lemmy. That’s only accurate for extreme stuff. The vast majority of the US is quiet and boring. Which is awesome.

            Lemmy has about 1.366 million registered users worldwide (with monthly active users way lower, around 48,000–50,000). That’s less than 0.0004% of the US population of roughly 343 million.