My ex has been ranting to people about how I’m such a slut, while at the same time pestering me about him coming to Switzerland to see me and getting back together. I don’t get this mindset.
My ex has been ranting to people about how I’m such a slut, while at the same time pestering me about him coming to Switzerland to see me and getting back together. I don’t get this mindset.
100% toxic destructive behavior. It is a very well researched and doculented pattern. Next steps: guilt triggering, indirect threat, verbal abuse, direct threat (including against self), physical abuse. Sometimes it ends with an attempted homicide or outright murder.
You can’t draw that conclusion from the available information.
Bro was just dumped, so he very well could just be venting his emotions to the wrong people.
It doesn’t justify his behavior, but his behavior doesn’t automatically mean he’s an abusive person.