Yeah I’ve been flirting with a couple lately and one of them is in grad school which is hot as fuck. The other does her trade at home for fun, which is also very attractive.

Honestly wanting success but not caring how is only matched in unattractiveness with not caring about anything enough to try to be good at it. Hell even being a jack of all trades is hot. My ex was no farmer or carpenter, but she gardened, built her own bed, and had just gathered various other skills wherever she could find them.