• SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    10 hours ago

    Exactly. Though if you’re being a good little worm you shouldn’t need to make jokes about being a sub for her to know what the deal is.

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      9 hours ago

      Unfortunately for me, many people read extroversion and confidence as dominance, so i have to be quite clear how easy it is to bring me to my knees and that no I really don’t switch

      • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        4 hours ago

        Ha! That’s a good point - I’m on the flip side, socially I’m quiet and introverted, and I’ve had to lay down the law a couple of times due to crossed wires

      • Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        7 hours ago

        Big time feels.

        Also apparently (in my experience) being a male means I’m automatically in charge all the time :(