I have. And I think folks should be able to talk about it without being stigmatized or harassed for sharing their experiences.

    • ɔiƚoxɘup@infosec.pub
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      16 hours ago

      And the wild part? I didn’t even think of it as assault, but when i recently (maybe a year or two ago) reframed as “the inebriated cannot consent” I’d have to say, that definitely happened twice. I blamed myself for being drunk both times. Neither time has ever sit well with me, even before I reframed it.

      And in both cases, the other, I feel weird even saying assailant, was stone sober.