I got divorced like 5 months ago after a 9 years with this girl who cheated on me, emotionally abused me, etc etc
I’ve been suicidal since the split, getting worse by the day still, and literally nobody ever asked if I was OK, aside from my mom. Even when I begged close friends for support they basically just ghosted me. My ex is surrounded by support, from the same people who I thought were my best friends.
Do I just have shitty people around me or is this just what guys deal with? The attitude towards me is just “get over it”. I’ve lost almost everyone I’m close to because of this and I’m starting to think there might actually be one viable option of getting over it because existing is simply torture. All of 2025 felt like just a bad dream but it’s unfortunately real.
Edit: Yes I have a counselor - a very good one I see weekly.
Im sorry about the dog, man, death is death, you know. Love transcends species and that’s beautiful. There’s a hole where my dog use to be but I think its not as painful anymore. I think at this point I’m ready to let more love in. If youre not now and dont think you’ll ever be, I was there.
Hey thanks friend. Honestly we don’t deserve dogs, and I definitely didn’t deserve him but I’m really glad we got to spend our time together. im going to go cut an onion now.