Im not saying give them a handy. Im saying look past the argument and go straight for remediation. Concede the argument immediately, and the moment you attempt to soothe them they will hesitate.
really, arguments are often very superficial. humans use them to protect themselves because they feel that they need to protect themselves. a lot of the time it’s much better to care about the human directly, instead of even bothering with whatever arguments they try to bring up as excuses.
Im not saying give them a handy. Im saying look past the argument and go straight for remediation. Concede the argument immediately, and the moment you attempt to soothe them they will hesitate.
that’s actually what i do a lot of the time :)
really, arguments are often very superficial. humans use them to protect themselves because they feel that they need to protect themselves. a lot of the time it’s much better to care about the human directly, instead of even bothering with whatever arguments they try to bring up as excuses.