• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldEnglish
    14·
    22 hours ago

    yes. everything is gendered for gender warriors.

    i’m cishet and i have a garden and most women i date think it means I’m secretly gay. the cat doesn’t help.

    gardening is considered feminine, or for old people. not for younger men who are supposed to be virile and dominant. they should be hunting.

    • Rothe@piefed.socialEnglish
      2·
      7 hours ago

      Sure, but the OP doesn’t say “gender warriors”, it says “Western man”, which includes a whole lot more people than the tiny minority of those bigots.

      Sorry that you live in a bubble of bigots, but it is not a general or universal experience.

    • jimmux@programming.devEnglish
      6·
      20 hours ago

      Weird. Have they seen how much you can provide from a garden?

      Also, having a garden doesn’t preclude one from hunting… whatever that means in the modern era. You can only eat so much meat.

    • Broadfern@lemmy.worldEnglish
      6·
      21 hours ago

      That’s wild, I’m sorry you gotta deal with that.

      Survival skills + demonstrated empathy/care with other living beings are positives for any person. Hopefully you find someone who appreciates that. /gen