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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • This is one of the primary issues in my marriage.

    My wife’s cleaning standard is MUCH higher than my own. It was fine before we had kids, the house was small and she did most of it. Now we have a bigger place and multiple children.

    She wants cleaning time to be equal. I say it’s not equal because the total hours required are dictated by her standards not mine.

    It’s not like my standards are disgusting or unhygienic though. I just don’t need the hallway swept every day, or the dishes completely washed every night. The dishwasher still runs daily.