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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • Again, bad example.

    In emergency situations, the vast majority of people do absolutely nothing. There’s a reason why during first aid training one of the most significant things they teach you is to call out a specific person, and get them to call 911, and double check that they actually do it.

    I’ve quite literally seen a pregnant woman fall on an icy sidewalk outside a building, and a dozen people walked by before I got there to help her.

    You see it all the time with car accidents too, someone crashes, and way too many cars try to drive around so they don’t get stuck in the traffic jam when the emergency crews arrive. Maybe one in 10 people will actually stop and try to help.

    You vastly overestimate how much people care about strangers.


  • Bad example. Most people don’t care about the person that serves them coffee at all. You also wouldn’t change your behavior to improve the relationship between Barista and Customer.

    People are selfish, and almost everything they do is selfish. However, most people are smart enough to understand that being openly greedy and selfish is not the optimal path to getting the most they can for themselves. It’s the prisoner’s dilemma on a population scale. If everyone agrees to mostly get along, everyone does better individually.

    The only exception to this tends to be very close family like a parent, a child, or maybe a sibling. Even those aren’t guaranteed though, lots of people treat even their close family poorly and don’t care about them.



  • Israel was created as a state by the UN after the other people who lived in that region (Formerly the Ottoman Empire) fought for the Axis and lost in the world wars.

    There were other territories that were also carved up and handed to other countries, and you don’t see the same issues there because their neighbors didn’t invade them because they were unhappy with the borders drawn by the UN.

    Israel has quite literally been under attack by multiple other countries since it was created.




  • Not really what?

    If the US government drops support for Israel, it’s going to get attacked by Iran.

    Iran has stated this publically, and it’s not some idle threat, they’ve been attacking Israel even with the support in place.

    If you think that the US population is mad about Palestinians dying in gaza, just wait to see how upset they will get when the people dying are white and being killed by an Islamic state invading.

    The reason the adults from the 40s supported Israel is because… That’s when it got invaded by multiple Islamic states.









  • A) There’s no way it’s just about the commute if the parents are asking about it. Figure out the real motive(s), could be something simply like money for the family, but could be something more complex like problems at home. Get to the bottom of the request before even considering it.

    B) High-school romances are sketchy at the best of times, nobody involved has learned to be responsible yet. The chances of this going poorly are high. There’s a huge difference between sleeping over sometimes and becoming a member of the household where chores and noise and other stressors exist.

    Personally, I’d be inclined to say no unless there’s some sort of bad situation going on where she is. If she is going hungry at home due to lack of resources or something, I’d figure out some options. It doesn’t sound like neglect or abuse based on the parents asking you, but maybe?

    You could always just work out something a bit more regular in terms of sleepovers for school nights, but making sure she gets some time with her family too.

    And make sure condoms are easily available to your son.