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Cake day: July 20th, 2023

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  • It sounds like it would be scary, especially since it is related to your trauma somehow. I’m guessing your body is trying to escape the triggering situation, so you go there involuntary because it was the only thing you could control in the moment.

    My $0.02 is that you can either pass the time or control it.

    Passing the time is consuming media, playing games, whatever you need to do until enough time passes and you return to yourself. It’s probably not healthy because your body has already ‘let go’ of reality, so I can’t seeing that anchor you. If you just need medicine to start working and you have a safe movie or show, whatever, then I can’t blame you.

    Controlling time is maybe an exaggeration, but actively making and things that are persistent might help anchor you. Writing, drawing, painting, any other analog prices where you contribute to the space around you.

    The deal is that you must save something from the last time you were not properly connected, and everything else you create needs to go somewhere. If you are writing, drawing, whatever, you can probably collect a lot before you really have to get rid of things. If you are painting and can’t get rid of the canvases, you can always paint over them. Something like pottery might be a little more difficult, but that’s all up to you.










  • About $60. They put the transceivers on either end of the cable. Only necessary if you require 40 Gbps at distances over 2.5’ or .8m. Not necessary for most applications, including 8k streaming.

    A gen5 NVME can read at about 15 Gbps, which will not saturate the thunderbolt at 20Gbps unless you have a raid array. At 40Gbps, you would need three sticks. You will ALSO need that much hardware on the other end to sustain the transfer.







  • I feel like I’m the last grounding point for a peer who is getting in too deep. He is running all kinds of agents and says that he is afraid of getting left behind. He tells me about openclaw, which I looked into, but not interested in automation that doesn’t produce specific repeatable results.

    On his behalf I have dug into ollama, but I find that I am just as fast if not faster at the OCR text cleanup using spell checker than arguing with the bot and fixing its mistakes.

    He seems to understand my frustrations very well, and my counterpoints seem to be accepted.

    I think it is important to try the tools at least a few times and to attempt to integrate them into your workflow, but you need to then take a step back after you finally feel like you have a flow and compare it to your work without. Sure, you are contributing to the numbers briefly, but without being able to articulate your grievances from their perspective your words won’t have as much weight.