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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • What can you do? Hypothetically you take each one of them aside and you force them to tell you what she’s been saying about you. And then somehow demonstrate that she is lying.

    Now that’s hypothetically.

    Realistically, there’s no way that they will want to change their mind anyway. Unless you have some really solid proof that you didn’t do it. And ans anybody can tell you , trying to prove a negative is almost impossible.

    So that means realistically, there is really nothing you can do about it. I mean, you can catch a couple of them when they’re alone. And try to find out what She said. But if they’ve already bought into the bullshit from her then what do you do?. I don’t really see a way back from that.

    By the way, I’m going on the basis of she’s lying and that she falsely accused you. As I only have your comment in the other post where you said she falsely accused. I have no way to know what did or did not happen. I’m just giving you information based on what I have. All I can say is good luck and try to move forward. Only you would know if you’d be able to approach those people and have a chance of sitting down and making them listen.






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    Public transport. Doesn’t really exist in this area

    Use a bike: works great unless you are older or there are no safe places to ride or both

    Use your feet… it’s 5 miles to get to the hardware store, 4 miles to get to the grocery store, 6 miles to get to work. How is that going to work in sub zero temps or when it’s raining

    Get an ev . They are expensive and I can barely keep my car on the road.









  • Most of them never come to my part of the country. But to be honest I probably won’t go anyways. Most bands are not that good live in concert anyways. I’ve seen videos even professionally done videos of certain bands, and certain singers videos where they were live on stage and I’m just thinking, I don’t know if I’d pay to ever see this.

    That and you have way too many people who think it’s OK to put a massive sign in front of you. Hey look now I can’t see anything. Or everybody having their arms up holding their phone and to be honest I just don’t see the benefit of that. Put the phones away enjoy the moment. To me it just detracts from it. I’m tall, but when everybody’s got their arms up, guess what they’re blocking my view of the stage. It’s a sea of arms and phones. Like I said, I just don’t enjoy it.