Yep!! And it’s similar for women - we can lose arousal easily if our mind isn’t fully focused on sex.

Keeping the goal of sex as just having fun and making your partner feel good is important. Climax is nice, but not necessary to have good sex.

Schools are a huge customer for these types of Thinkpads. Kids are rough on laptops. They’ll be bought in large quantities regardless.

Women very much worry about all sorts of things related to sexual performance.

I’m gonna be real with ya - I’m 40 and have been a self-described slut for a long time. I love sex. I love sex with other people (men and women). It’s great.

I’ve never felt let down or disappointed when I’ve been with a man who, for whatever reason, didn’t stay hard during our time. It happens! There’s so many things going on and it’s easy to let one area of focus slide.

Most people aren’t going to be too bothered by this because they’ve probably been through something similar.

Do you feel like men and women can’t understand or extend empathy to the other in bed?

Homosexuals definitely have relationship-related and performance-related anxiety. Women worry about their body not responding (not getting wet) similarly to men worrying about their penis not getting hard.

People of the same sex can also be judgmental of their partners. Not everyone experiences the same issues and there can be lack of understanding regardless of their gender.

A recent weekend event - it was just my son and myself that weekend and I decided to take him to a cultural event in our city. As we were walking home after filling our bellies with food truck chicken and watching the lion dancers, he interrupted our silence with “Mom, I love going to street fairs with you.”

I could’ve held on to that moment forever.