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  • I’m more expressing frustration that they have been approached multiple times about fixing the broken blocking by either renaming it muting (what it actually is), or creating an actual blocking feature. The excuses they provide are nonsensical.

    Blocking protects users. Why would a federated platform not want to protect users?



  • Blocking on Lemmy is really just muting, and it should be called that.

    A real blocking feature would be nice (it exists on other fediverse platforms).

    The devs have said that blocking wouldn’t do anything because everything is public, so the blocked user could still access the content they are blocked from but frankly that’s bs. If that were true, then there would be no point of banning either, right?

    Devs want a monopoly on the power to block people they don’t like through the use of bans (and they claim to be all for the people).


  • I’ve found radicale more stable in my implementation, but both are very good and are pretty similar to use.

    If you already have NextCloud/OwnCloud it would be a good to use the Calendar that is already built in, but it doesn’t make sense to install those for a calendar when there are better options available.






  • You have a good heart and are stronger than you think.

    Some of your instincts are exactly right, while some are a little off. You’re right about finding better opportunities to meet like minded people in the city. Parts of Ohio are pretty progressive and open minded.

    There are women who would love to get to know you, and that will only improve over time. As people get older and wiser, the stereotypical roles become less and less important, and what ends up mattering is having a caring partner who is capable of growth. That’s you.

    Last, yes, there are some people who might wish to do violence to anyone who is different. However, they tend to be cowards and opportunists and there are not that many of them. The point of terrorism is to make people afraid, because even though it’s unlikely for any one person to be a victim, everyone feels like they could potentially be a victim.

    It is extremely unlikely that you will personally be targeted with deadly violence just for who you are. It’s even more unlikely to happen multiple times. The best thing you can do to protect yourself is to have situational awareness.