In the original correctiv article, they mention, that there seemingly was a plan to sell it to other parties

Hehe, thanks :⁠-⁠)

Isn’t it defense?

Now I’m not sure, sorry, if I’m wrong

Edit: seems ‘defense’ is USA English and ‘defence’ is British and Australian English
Would have guessed exactly the other way round

But both are valid, so disregard my snarky comment and accept my apology, please.

Yeah, that’s really annoying with Linux filemanagers

Just tell me when you’re done and not when the file is completely written into cache, that doesn’t help me in any way

I love my Linux, but it’s really annoying to open a terminal to run sync, just to be sure

Yeah… I’m currently really shocked and afraid of the ongoing push of chat control on Europe as well
That will be a major impact on privacy and without reason
And they just try again and again - they don’t even have a pause, they just start again and hope, that it will go through one time

Not sure how to escape it, and if, you are already labelled a terrorist
Like Spanish police looks if you have a pixel with GrapheneOS, because then they think you’re a drug dealer

Or years ago the apartment of a guy in Vienna got raided and all his work IT devices confiscated, just because he ran a remote VPS as Tor exit node

Not sure what we can do

I grew up in the internet and it was a great place.
Now people without any knowledge want to take this all away…

I was more thinking about 3rd parties using Microsoft, Google, Facebook logins for their shit, so can get tracked even better

But, yes, you’re right

…or a Google, Facebook, or… account

But yes

Financial stability… Seems I’m doing something wrong

Fewer worries? I didn’t gave a shit in my 20th, since my burnout I’m a complete wreck

I think, everyone has something different at that age

I do start to notice, what’s actually important to me, but being a nerve wreck, I don’t have the base to really go for the things, I care about

Cocaine gives you a short burst, Adderall gives gives some longer lasting wakeness

Every pomodoro break a line…sounds actually sustainable to get through the day

It’s a compromise.
It supports modern hardware well enough and the environment is good enough.
I do like the cleaned up state of BSD better, but the missing hardware support is pretty much killing that.

Also, all the machines I’m developing for and controlling are running some kind of RT Linux.
So I don’t have that much friction between systems.

So, you were putting down fences?
I guess, that’s good. Why did you stop?

Sounds very good, especially with getting rid of palm oil

We’re just not so sweet here and only sometimes get an urge, but that’s not enough for baking…

To only thing I did were hash brownies, but that was quite some time ago… ;⁠-⁠)

Ah, thank you!

Ok, that one’s on me for only mentioning ‘cooking’ ;⁠-⁠)

But honestly, we don’t bake much. I don’t think we baked anything sweet ever.

Well yeah, we’re together since more than 12 years now, so by now she knows me and we’re actually cooking together - usually the one with the idea what to cook takes the lead and the other one assists

So it’s not a major problem, but there is always room to improve :⁠-⁠)

I’ve already tried different ways to ask, but as said, she knows me and can read between the lines ;⁠-⁠)

I’m completely with you regarding ssh/scp
But I don’t know what you mean with mbuff (guess, memory buffer?)
Haven’t found anything with a quick search, but as I often need ssh/scp to work through customer VPNs, everything that makes that faster or more stable is a very welcomed thing :⁠-⁠)

I ask, why she does that this way, so I can learn, and yes, I then tell her, that this is cool and I’m happy to do it that way as well

But asking already is triggering a defense mechanism now… 😞

In general, we are perfectly fine though and very happy with each other
So this is not a real problem, just would like to do it better

Edit: and no, it’s not about “my way”
As I said, for me this is just an external thing I’m doing and isn’t connected to me - like it’s not a personal fault, if I do it wrong
I often ask her for help, because I know she does many things better, where I can’t

We have the saying, together we’re one good monkey

It’s just some things, and I’m not sure how to it better, when I want to tell her about my learning experience/mistakes I’ve already made, and want to show, that’s easier or better that way
And even then, I don’t say, that I’m doing it correct, I only say, I do it that way, because I think it’s easier/better

And I usually ask, why she is doing something her way, because I want to verify my own approach - because I think, I’m doing something wrong or miss a thing, I haven’t thought about

Edit 2: current example:
In our bedroom it’s getting bright quite early and I said, maybe we should think about curtains, because the window blinds don’t really work that good
She said, she is worried about mold on the walls with them, and I said, ah, yeah, you’re right, I haven’t thought about the winter months

So hopefully, you now have a better picture and don’t think of my like an asshole anymore, that doesn’t let any other idea being ok ;⁠-⁠)

Final edit:
I just saw now, that you aren’t the guy I was talking with first
I was hoping for an exchange with another one, that is seemingly in the same shoes like my wife, so I can maybe have an idea how to do this better
That was the original idea, why I started talking
Maybe you have an input yourself, but at the moment, you misinterpreted my situation

Scrolled a bit further and found this intriguing game

https://sopuli.xyz/post/48181032

My partner thinks the same of me 😞

I’m very focused on optimizing things and sometimes I just want to ask, why she is doing things her way, because I think, that I’m maybe missing something.

She always brings up the example, that I even tell her, she washes tomatoes wrong, because she used warm water.
But they are just easier to cut, when they are cold and the skin doesn’t already separate

She takes the critique very personal and now it’s mostly me cooking…
Which is fine, but I’m feeling bad, because I didn’t want to say, that she does something wrong, I see such things as external and we can improve, not attached to the person as a being.

So, when she does something better, I don’t feel bad, I try to adapt her style.
Other way round, it’s always a personal critique it seems

But I’m also very picky with food and obviously not an easy person. So I’m happy, she still sticks with me and I’ll happily cook for her