I do feel bad for miss gendering someone(stranger). But I really do not know the best way to go about it. Is it just to use gender neutral terms at all time? Because I know that when I say sir or man I say it in Corning from a respectful place. But I can see how that be said in a derogatory way and also can just be exhausting being called the wrong “name”. I don’t know. I am just saying that sucks do deal with all day and I understand I am also part of the problem.