• Krudler@lemmy.world
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    2 hours ago

    Dude I had a very similar experience. I got literally nothing from her for 2 hours, and then when the date was over I just left and said well goodbye.

    Later got a series of messages from her friend asking me why I was so rude and disinterested.

    It’s like bitch, I must have spoken 200,000 words that date, and the chick spoke 200.

    Like what am I supposed to do, just talk in your ear for the whole relationship or like what’s going to happen here… fuck this.

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      1 hour ago

      Oh absolutely. I spoke with the mutual friend after and she was being all coy asking me if I was going to ask the girl out on a second date. Hard Pass.

      She looked a little sad, I think the date girl had a nice time and was willing to go out again, but I explained my perspective from the date, and the mutual friend reluctantly understood.

      Mutual friend never explained why the date girl acted like that. If it was just shy nerves, I probably would have given her another chance, but that’s probably just how she is.

    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldOP
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      2 hours ago

      princess entitlement. she’s mad you didn’t salivate all over her for just existing. probably said you were ‘low effort’ for not taking her to a more expensive place too.

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        I just told her friend that I could have taken a mannequin on a date and it would have been just as interactive.

        Of course, that was like pouring water on a fish for all the effect it registered.