• QuarterSwede@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    You poor soul. Married 19 years and I couldn’t imagine doing this life without her. Sure, she aggravates me at times but she makes me happy more often. And one thing is for sure, she makes me a better person by persuading me to do things I wouldn’t’ve (the things I’ve seen) and complements my weaknesses.

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      3 days ago

      I have my faults. Lord knows I do. But I cannot stand hot then cold then hot then cold. At this point I can survive a dead bedroom if it means consistency but being OK 1 day and then not being OK the next day is just a lot.

      That, and as a guy with an avoidant personality, this makes me not want to be open or vulnerable, leading to other issues.