As a guy, I never really felt comfortable saying those things to anyone irl.

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    Drunkenly dumping emotions on family and friends isn’t great. Used to do that in my 20’s. Took some therapy and a great partner to work on my emotional intelligence

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      Oh no, never dump. I might vent, or open up and share something I otherwise wouldn’t, I’m not a messy drunk and would hate being an inconvenience. I always regret it in the end because I’m not used to letting my guard down. But I agree that it’s an issue all the same.

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        Ah, in that case it sounds like you shouldn’t feel bad. Everybody needs to vent here and there