I see a lot of commentary, especially on Lemmy and Reddit, about how awful children are and how wonderful adulthood without kids is. And if you don’t want them, more power to you.
On the other hand, many people are parents and love having children! I want to hear some of the positive stories. What about being a parent makes your life better? What’s your favorite thing about your kids?
one day when I die, someone will remember me long after I’m gone. hopefully fondly, but not expected.
I’ll be honest, I never wanted kids. I love them, I provide and care for them. is my life richer because of them? 🤷 no? I just hope they grow up to be better than me and live fulfilling happy lives. I can’t ask for much more than that.
to anyone who is trying to force you or “change your mind” about having them, I’ll ask you this. If they can’t respect your boundaries on this, why would they respect your boundaries on anything else?