Unfortunately a lot of times it’s not a joke. These people genuinely think they’re superior to parents, and a lot of them genuinely hate kids and those who chose to have them. It’s a rotten mindset to it’s core that built on hatred of preconceived stereotypes. It’s something that’s irrational in both logic and the emotions that it evokes. It’s literally a new form of bigotry.
People like you should be the default. You made your choice and you respect other people who made theirs. You understand other people have their own reasons that are different than yours. That’s normal, that’s healthy. It means you’re secure enough in the decisions you’ve made to not go around trying to justify it to yourself by pretending you’re better than other people. As much as I would like to believe that people like you are the silent majority, I’m finding that more and more difficult to believe with just how prevalent these smug childless people are becoming in society.
Oh dude, I know Dx back when I was still using reddit I had a few run ins with the childfree subreddits and I didn’t like the tone on the main one and asked around if there was a sub somewhere, where you could just talk with normal childfree people about the lifestyle. I was recommended the true childfree subreddit and was permabanned for my first and only post where I wanted to start a discussion about the doubts and the difficult choices related to choosing the childfree lifestyle. I was permabanned for trolling, which pissed me off enough to just give up on trying to find people like me online to talk to about it.
I actually really like kids and kids really like me, lol. They always think I’m “one of them” when I play with them at family gatherings and such. They seem to always forget that I’m adult who’s older than their parents a lot of the time. It’s just to say that I don’t hate kids. I tend to not like people who hate kids. I feel like it’s a good way of telling if I will like a person or not. Do they like kids or not? They can even be indifferent and I will be okay with them. But if they hate kids, I reserve the right within myself to label them as someone I don’t want to know.
I just could never be a parent because parenthood isn’t for me, lol. I would be really bad at it, so I leave that up to those of you who actually can do it and I respect you for it.
But to be completely honest, I think the losers who make hating kids and parents their only personality trait, those people are a very loud online minority. I don’t believe they are the majority irl. I could be wrong though. I don’t know any irl childless people who hate kids. They are either like me, they think kids are cool but they just don’t know how to be a parent or they are indifferent to kids or they just never got a chance to start a family.
Unfortunately a lot of times it’s not a joke. These people genuinely think they’re superior to parents, and a lot of them genuinely hate kids and those who chose to have them. It’s a rotten mindset to it’s core that built on hatred of preconceived stereotypes. It’s something that’s irrational in both logic and the emotions that it evokes. It’s literally a new form of bigotry.
People like you should be the default. You made your choice and you respect other people who made theirs. You understand other people have their own reasons that are different than yours. That’s normal, that’s healthy. It means you’re secure enough in the decisions you’ve made to not go around trying to justify it to yourself by pretending you’re better than other people. As much as I would like to believe that people like you are the silent majority, I’m finding that more and more difficult to believe with just how prevalent these smug childless people are becoming in society.
Oh dude, I know Dx back when I was still using reddit I had a few run ins with the childfree subreddits and I didn’t like the tone on the main one and asked around if there was a sub somewhere, where you could just talk with normal childfree people about the lifestyle. I was recommended the true childfree subreddit and was permabanned for my first and only post where I wanted to start a discussion about the doubts and the difficult choices related to choosing the childfree lifestyle. I was permabanned for trolling, which pissed me off enough to just give up on trying to find people like me online to talk to about it.
I actually really like kids and kids really like me, lol. They always think I’m “one of them” when I play with them at family gatherings and such. They seem to always forget that I’m adult who’s older than their parents a lot of the time. It’s just to say that I don’t hate kids. I tend to not like people who hate kids. I feel like it’s a good way of telling if I will like a person or not. Do they like kids or not? They can even be indifferent and I will be okay with them. But if they hate kids, I reserve the right within myself to label them as someone I don’t want to know.
I just could never be a parent because parenthood isn’t for me, lol. I would be really bad at it, so I leave that up to those of you who actually can do it and I respect you for it.
But to be completely honest, I think the losers who make hating kids and parents their only personality trait, those people are a very loud online minority. I don’t believe they are the majority irl. I could be wrong though. I don’t know any irl childless people who hate kids. They are either like me, they think kids are cool but they just don’t know how to be a parent or they are indifferent to kids or they just never got a chance to start a family.
If someone is truly that hateful, at least they’re being kind enough to remove themselves from the gene pool.