I’m just saying if two close persons I know have been baby trapped now imagine how people are out there in the same situation, not just because they are from my family just because they are close enough to know, how many are out there which didn’t say anything or didn’t know. There are people who say maybe 1 in 3 men raise kids which are not theirs without knowing. Really I think 1 in 3 are too many but as there is no statistic about it who knows.
I’m not proposing anything, I was just wondering what other people think about it, honestly I’m not concerned about it as anyway I’m not willing to have another serious relationship for the rest of my life not to mention having children or taking care of someone else’s kid.
I feel it is not so absurd, are you saying there are no cases or just a few of men who are being cheated on and then baby trapped with a kid is not theirs? Or you suppose women are so saint so they will not lie with something like that?
Im saying the problem is so vastly insignificant that its negligible. Im willing to change me mind in light of evidence. BUT, Extraordinary [changes to medical practices] requires extraordinary evidence
Yeah I understand your point, anyway only time will tell us what will happen… because there isn’t any creíble metered statistic about it but I feel like soon with DNA tests normalized we will know and maybe it will be mandatory at some point, but who knows as I say honestly I don’t care too much just wondering what people think about it here on Lemmy.
Are you extrapolatijg your families experience to the rest of the world?
I’m just saying if two close persons I know have been baby trapped now imagine how people are out there in the same situation, not just because they are from my family just because they are close enough to know, how many are out there which didn’t say anything or didn’t know. There are people who say maybe 1 in 3 men raise kids which are not theirs without knowing. Really I think 1 in 3 are too many but as there is no statistic about it who knows.
My friend, you are extrapolating based in a sample size of 2, to the entire world. Then, proposing this MASSIVE healthcare change based on that. …
I’m not proposing anything, I was just wondering what other people think about it, honestly I’m not concerned about it as anyway I’m not willing to have another serious relationship for the rest of my life not to mention having children or taking care of someone else’s kid.
Okay, so you understand the implications of how absurd the question is?
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I feel it is not so absurd, are you saying there are no cases or just a few of men who are being cheated on and then baby trapped with a kid is not theirs? Or you suppose women are so saint so they will not lie with something like that?
Im saying the problem is so vastly insignificant that its negligible. Im willing to change me mind in light of evidence. BUT, Extraordinary [changes to medical practices] requires extraordinary evidence
Yeah I understand your point, anyway only time will tell us what will happen… because there isn’t any creíble metered statistic about it but I feel like soon with DNA tests normalized we will know and maybe it will be mandatory at some point, but who knows as I say honestly I don’t care too much just wondering what people think about it here on Lemmy.
Will it? We’ve had this tech for decades. Its never been a consideration before. Im not convinced it ever needs to be.
I understand you may be hurting, brother. But, I promise you, in a healthy relationship, you wont feel this way. Much love