I know the question sounds a little ridiculous, but I’ve heard similar stories where people know each other for a week or even a day, but still fall in love and build strong bonds.

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    I met my first wife walking to a frat party. We hung out all night, were dating with a week and married with kids within the next 5 years

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      First is doing some unsung work there.

      I proposed to my first wife in a month. We divorced after 7 years. I don’t recommend it. In fact I think no one should marry younger than 25.

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        I got married at 19 and I’m still married today after almost 16 years. We’re very happy. I think you’re right tho, waiting until 25+ is a good idea. We’re exceptionally lucky, imo.

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        We stayed together a lot longer than we should have. I think the first ones usually do. Divorce feels more like failing than overcoming an obstacle.