I know the question sounds a little ridiculous, but I’ve heard similar stories where people know each other for a week or even a day, but still fall in love and build strong bonds.
I know the question sounds a little ridiculous, but I’ve heard similar stories where people know each other for a week or even a day, but still fall in love and build strong bonds.
One of my longest, best relationships was with a woman I met at a bar. We were both regulars, had seen each other before, but had never spoken. Turns out we were both out for a rebound one-night stand after each ending a long term relationship. Despite not looking for depth, we ended up talking the whole night, went home together, then got up and went out for breakfast and spent the whole next day together. We absolutely clicked and moved fast, and even thought we eventually split we are still friends.
Personal opinion from 30yrs of dating- spontaneous clicks happened more easily before internet dating, hook-up apps, or all the digital pre-screening. Right or wrong people make opinions about each other’s digital footprints, which are often only curated half-truths or their attempt to sell their idealize self image without their insecurities. Or, with Tinder, a lot of people aren’t looking for a click and are walls up about letting it happen; the terms of the relationship are short and clear. When the first impression is each other in the flesh you can (generally) get a better feel for who one another are.
I’ve already realized that online dating is not dating, it’s a kind of shop, seriously, instead of finding real people, people can successfully communicate with AI on a computer, it’s a perfect product, much better than a real person, isn’t it? For many years I tried to find at least someone on the Internet, but there, as I said, people consider each other something that can be used, thrown away and replaced in half an hour or even five minutes. In the early Internet, everything was not so bad, but the further it went, the worse it became.
dating was like that before online dating apps. you just went to bars or clubs with a lot of people.
they used to be called ‘single’s bars/clubs’ for a reason… because people went there to shop.