Last night I had a hookup for the first time. I told the guy I wanted him to use a condom, which offended him because he was like, “Why do I need to use one if you already have an IUD? Do you think I’m some STD-ridden guy?” I told him I just don’t know him that well. Either way it was fine in the end, he put it on and it was a fine night. Now I’m thinking, was I being a pushover?
No. The IUD is none of his business. Maybe you don’t want an STD, maybe you dont want to deal with the mess all night…who knows… But it should never be a debate, and if it is, buddy can go find another velvet underground… And yeah, you really cant trust people these days, trust is earned!