Met this guy on Sunday, he gave me excellent vibes. We hung out again yesterday and ended up at his apartment… I ended up staying the night. Now he’s at work and I’m still here. Woke up feeling like a wife, lol.

I kind of want to make my top comfort food, turmeric chicken noodle soup, for when he gets home. I’ve just been going with the flow, and I’m feeling amazing.

  • Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    8 hours ago

    Nobody can tell you what the right move is but I can tell you what would have worked on me if I was the guy and I had left you at home.

    Make the soup and leave it for him on the counter with a note about how you had a great time but sadly had to leave. Let the man miss you and appreciate your gesture at his own pace and on his own.

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      4 hours ago

      This is the one, if she’s really into the guy. Maximum allure with a relatively thin chance of coming across as weird and invasive.

      Edit: Although I do have to wonder whether he’s objectively worth all that. She’s known him a week.