I was raised to address strangers and those I wish to show social deference to as “Sir” or “Ma’am”. It’s a difficult habit to break, as it is deeply engrained.
What is an equivalent gender neutral honorific that is relatively common in English? If I can’t break the habit I’d rather have a substitute word to use instead of an awkward pause in the middle of addressing someone
I’d just use Google to ask but I’d rather ask the people directly rather than an AI generated answer based off of Reddit threads
ETA: I suppose if Yessir and Yes’m work, Yesn’t could too? Mostly joking… but maybe… 🤔
“OI CUNT” 🇦🇺
“Hey”
The scousers (people from Liverpool, England, UK) have a very useful one in their dialect, “Youse” (pronounced Ewes, like the sheep)
And it’s gender neutral, but also double as a group pronoun
Youse gonna use that?
(Person, are you going to use that?)
Hey youse, heading out?
(Depends on context, can be singular, can be group, either “Person, are you going to go outside?” or “People, are you going to go outside?”)
It’s v useful
Buddy, Friend, Majesty, Squire
Greetings, sentient!
I just call everyone “comrade”.
Mage
…crap, I’m cis male and I wanna be addressed as “mage”…
I’ve seen enough posts related to etymology or historical use of words where they, either misrepresent the facts to fit a narrative or just make shit up, that I try to look it up my self. I also find etymology fascinating so that helps.
In this case they are absolutely right.
Both Mr and. Mrs,ms are derived from master and mistress (teachers) and both of those words stem from the Latin word Magister.
Edit: fun fact the English verb stick is the same word as the noun stick and comes from the same origin the Germanic word stik which also meant a piece of wood and to pierce/adhere or sharp. But wait it’s older than that the Latin word stigare also means pierce. And share the same ancestry, namely indo-european. Turns out we humans have been talking about sticks for a long time.
…why not just “magister” and avoid a word that already has very strong, current connotations with fantasy?
Let’s hit “magister” and then work our way down. I swear to god I’d change the shit out of my pronouns to fit mage.
The issue, I guess, is that Mr./Ms. have had centuries to be normalized into common use, whereas “magister” still holds a bit of prestige or honor to it. I’m just spitballin’. I’m definitely going to read more into this when I have some time.
I mean, mages are pretty cool. 🧙♂️
Just say Y’all, it pretty much covers that
Fucker!
S’mr’amr
RoboCop “citizen”
I prefer “fellow human” spoken in a slightly suspicious manner.
Comrade
I like referring to all as boss or chief.
Sounds like something a food truck vendor selling spicy shawarmas would say.
Sounds like something a villain’s goon would say.
