I mean grain of salt because I don’t have much of one but kinda old and married. Just go do stuff. Like my library has all sorts of programs and if I would easily go to them over watching something or playing a video game if I had the time. I do go to protests and meet people also “concerned” over whats going on in the country. I don’t have the cash for cons right now but can always ghost (go to the location and hang out with folks in the common sorta public areas of the hotel).