I’m not really relevant to your interaction but I thought it was a little cute. Not tactful, but the spirit was there.

If I wanted to write a similar message like yours, I’d probably have done it like this:

Let’s say I were to call you a “bitch”. What would your purely hypothetical response be? 🥺

That’s:

• less direct
• playful (“If I were to insult you” is a very fun way to tease AND pretend to be an innocent little angel)
• probing the water to see if they’re interested

At least in my opinion. I’m terrible at flirting though so you may want to evaluate this yourself.